Stakes, Spoils, and Post-Match Punishment

I think it’s entirely self explanatory

Sometimes I think guys put that they don't want sex because they may be partnered and the "no sex" language gives them plausible deniability if their significant other discovers their profile.

thats possibly true, and other reason maybe that they dont want penetration, top or bottom scene, just touching, oral, frotting, JO .

thats possible. if i meet anyone from here, and we play, it stays between us , boyfriends dont need to know

hey guys, i put in my profile, want sex ! cause i want to get naked with dudes, i wanna be sucking your cock , and let you bend my hole over . this site was recommended from a reddit user that posted in the r/wrestling page . email welcome

With you. pretty clear that we're looking for ass and throat.

and you cock needs that attention

I'll fight and give you guys fear in the end. Fear of a bull cock in the end.

Yup, jobberjayse is one badass jock. Easily one of the hottest fuckers here. Just know that he's not gonna give it up. You gotta take it from him. His ass, throat, balls, cock and cum gotta me taken by domination and forced submission.

And he's gonna take it like a fucking stud.

And I totally agree with him. i just can't have a match without primal dom manhandling in the stakes.

Like @jobberjayse, I sport a throbbing, raging boner just from going to the gym. Now imagine my cock when I'm grappling and grinding with another tough, strong badass. Ya, my cock's throbbing and drooling during matches and it's fight for a piece of man ass or tight, hungry throat to feed. The intensity of the match is driving by my cock's primal urge to take charge and feed another alpha.

I couldn't have a non sexual match. Wrestling itself is a form of BDSM (for me anyway).
Wrestling is primal male power exchange where dominance and forced submission are fueled by masculinity and power, by cock and cum.

Gotta be feeling muscle grinding muscle and experiencing the power, strength of man.

Two alphas in battle vying to become first amongst equals. Taste the power of man.

So fucking hot. Would love for a big guy like you to do this to me. Fuck me in the ass while you bend me over in a full nelson.

You're my Master! Totally agree

Some wrestlers on this site write "doesn't want sex" and "want sex"; some who write "no sex" are the more vicious when you tchat or wrestle with them. They dont want to accept they are excited and want sex in the end. By fear of their desire

I want a sex fight with you man to man

Exactly what I think : wrestling between to alphas is always sexual for me and must finish by sex and domination and pleasure in the domination or submission. The more the fight is exciting the more the after is hot. Sometimes the tension is so extreme that turns on i n sex immediately. Stakes and punishment are good for the winner and the looser. There is no looser finally because the pleasure is shared in the fun and the excitement

"does not want sex" only means that the dude (or dudes) would rather not get into something with any erotic expectations on the part of their opponent(s).

however it never means theres never going to be sex, during or after a fight, as it is something that may become UNCOVERED (literally and figuratively) in the moment.

meanwhile, i have never been in a fight where the more intense it gets that the involvement doesnt also get more "passionate".

consequently things evolve from there. from hard holds, to hard cocks to, often, a great deal more.

further, i am the type of grappler who has NEVER been able to even start a fight without a boner (which is why i could not fight in junior or high school). as such, i tell all my opponents that i prefer/need some erotics in a match. it would be disingenuous of me to present things otherwise.

remarkably a lot of "no sex" dudes still take me up on the challenge—and i do my best to reign myself in.

thankfully, most succumb to their sweatier & lustier natures . . .

because, well, men are men !

Agreed, and thank you for that, jobberjayse. I too rarely start a match without something pretty obvious in my trunks, and prefer to wrestle guys that are [a] happy with that, and [b] provoke it! LoL

But I wonder sometimes if the "don't want sex" label is interpreted as meaning "don't want anal sex" - that they think sex=intercourse; whereas they are happy with frotting, suck etc. That's what I try to keep in mind, but the reality is that I very rarely get to meet a guy with that on his profile anyway.

I think it's true though - and something that I think is great - that men are men...

Handsome, I am totally with you on this one. While I prefer a match that ends with the losing man being fucked (and bred with the winning male's seed — which makes the man a better wrestler for the next match), I am just as happy taking oral stakes (because swallowing a man's load does pretty much the same thing). I mean, after all, it's about the essence and aura and passing of one man's masculine power from one to another.

Meanwhile, most men who do not engage in some sort of logical erotic conclusion find alternate (but always subconsciously male-sexual ways) to release the energy they have surely pent up (in their full balls!)

This is also why some men turn to things like guns and other forms of "release" violence, with shooting as an extension of their own cock cumming!

Dudes, why not just put it all together in a perfect wrestling match?!

wrestling with Jobberjayse was awesome! I can't imagine anyone not wanting to do both with him!

Thanks, and I feel the same about you, daddy!

Couldn't agree with you more, Jay. For me the best and most fulfilling end to a match is when I get to fuck my opponent, preferably in a face-to-face pin in the ring. I'm fortunate in that I do have some wrestling mates on here (including the late, lamented Dave King/O'Connor) who are happy to take or want my seed, and firing into them in that context, in communion between both men, is not only the most satisfying sex for me but also creates a special complete understanding between us - a band and bond of real special brothers. Not that I don't mind giving a good skull fuck either, again in a pin (and Dave aggressively sucked my ball juice out from me that way) , but the manfuck is the most primally satisfying.

Argh, Cym, I could not have said it better myself. Primal and completely satisfying. There is no other true way for men to be with other men! (Now, to the day we are face to face — down to our socks and boners already at the ready!)

PS That there are quite a few men who agree with what we are writing is heartening (and hot as hell). We need to form an international brotherhood of fellow males who follow this ideology. Sealed with the obvious!

Completely sealed with the obvious: and swallowed as well as anything else. Men have a natural desire for this thing and it earths and satisfies as nothing else does. You can be chairman: sitting on me...

If I am the Chairman but "sitting" on you, stud, doesn't that make me your cock puppet as well? (I sure love that idea. But maybe we trade positions in every third "meeting"?! LOL)

Meanwhile, you have to wonder what all the men reading our thread are thinking about right now. Are these two just typical male horndogs? Well, yeah!

CUM join us, bros!

PS and it is true: nothing is the more logical and satisfying conclusion to a brutal, sweaty, powerful, and passionate battle between men!

Jobberjayse is one of the absolute sexiest men on this site, and I challenge anyone who says they don't want sex to see if they can resist him and his hot hot hot hot body

Exactly why I went extra classes all summers do I would NOT have to take PE -boners all thru class Freshmen & Sophomore years!

I was pinned down by two opponents, one pulled out my cock to the side of my speedos and wanked me off.. The other then slid over and heavily sucked me off as I was wriggling under them but pinned stretched out on the floor... That was pretty erotic and pretty much sex..

Just assume that it means “Doesn’t want Sexual Encounter”, keep it broad. Unless told otherwise.

I agree some just want JO
ASK!!

Doesn't want sex = don't put it where the sun don't shine! 😎

For what it’s worth, please let me share what it means to me.

Plain language: it means I have no desire to have any form of intercourse and I’m not actively looking for it.

That said, I’m discovering more and more that wrestling gets me going, and that the more I do it, the stronger the feeling. Case in point: became erect tonight and find out when going into the shower that I ended up discharging in my jock because my genitals were covered in my own cum. And depending on the person, I’m finding that when wrestling in a non-competitive format or venue, I expect dirty tactics, and if I’m going to shoot a load, then I will, but I’m not interested in eating it, or anything else for that matter. And I wouldn’t force my fluids onto anybody else. That’s not what I’m looking for, but when I wrestle the right person and we trust each other, we can have fun and push the lines but not cross them. I’d soon rather enjoy the male bonding and the wrestling. Largely because it’s not the other person that’s aroused me. It’s what we’re doing. Wrestling’s the arousal, and I do my best to communicate it.

I hope this helps.

"doesn't want sex" has always meant to me that the man youre fighting does not want the fight to be about sex or even a prelude to it. his intention is about the fight itself. that said, 99% of the battles i have engaged in have ended in some sort of sexual action. minimally cocksucking the winner to raw fucking the loser.

yeah, you can easily guess who is doing the sucking and who is being fucked. but get this, too: i do not fight to have sex. i fight to fight. but i also know that the interaction is and always has been about how the harder we go at each other the harder i get (as does my opponent, almost always).

the bottom line is, all men into wrestling, whether highly conscious or deeply subconscious, to it because wrestling (and gut punching and abs punching, et al) know it is something that turns them on. and yes, by turns them on it means it gets them in that sexual way. but whether they act upon it cums down to the two guys in the moment. some can subdue it—but that does not mean the feeling (of some erotic addition, extension of the action) isn't there . . .

Found out about same guys I have battled-then are aroused and wanna be FUCKED! WTH?

I don't think it's sex if it's frot. It's more like extreme foreplay. I'm not sure how to classify oral. Clinton claimed it wasn't sex but it seems to me like it is.

I don't think it is either

I think that if u cum and theres more than one person involved (like when ur wrestling) then its sex.

only fucked one dude i wrestled and because he really wanted me to do it. so i slid it in his fuckhole and did it for like 5 minutes before i couldnt hold back and spooged up in him. Then he jacked his cock when i was still inside and spurted all over his stomach.

I think id do it again if the boy i was wrestling really wanted to get fucked, i've done it with girls and a boy's asshole feels like a girl's I guess.

I think some guys don't consider it sex if it's just oral or frot. They believe anal penetration is real sex. Could be wrong.

I believe that Isaac has hit upon it. Many guys do NOT consider it sex if it is oral or frot.

I agree and a lot of straight boys do this NOT SEX EITH A GAY BOY! They say

i agree as well. oral possible depending on the guy, no anal for me

I get boned on the physical impact....that primal muscle grinding on muscle, feeling the struggle and straining, power of strength of warriors vying for supremacy. For me it's a primal struggle between 2 modern day gladiators, competing to be first amongst equals. Alpha on alpha.
For me that real competitive match should result in claiming the defeated opponent as the prize of victory. Either way, the defeated alpha should take it like a man.
That's Gladiator Code.

Correct!!! Claim RE prize you won!!! Like I plan to do to you after we lock up MusclePecMan!!!!

I'm fine with both.....
I do prefer to able to have sex...any kind....as a part of my matches....
But I also like hot match with long held submission holds, without sex if my opponent prefers....and am fine taking care of business on my own afterwards.

When i wrestle I want to cum and thats sex. I think that tag means dont want to get assfucked but does it mean dont want to do oral sex too?
So maybe there should be a tag that says "Doesn't Want Fucking" or "Doesn't Want Assfucking" or something. Just wondering.

For me, it means, lets actually wrestle or box. Not just hook up for sex.
I like to make sex part of the stakes.

I find it very exciting and stimulating wrestling for sexual stakes, keen to win the other guy's arse but always the chance you might lose your own to him. I'd love to try my luck to win your arse Lumberjack!

Rumble31, challenge accepted buddy. Winner takes all. Lumberjack (Matt)

I think each person interprets it differently. I’d just ask the person. They’ll tell you for sure

That's a good answer, plus depending on the style or whatever. What you wear, as well as certain moves you go for indicate obvious things.

I was going to say the same.